Antijen is run by Aunty - who hosts many lists relating to transitioning for both families and the person in transition. It's a great resource with very nice, understanding people behind it.
Combines authoritative information and humanitarian insight into the transsexual experience
Filled
with wisdom and understanding, this groundbreaking book paints a vivid
portrait of conflicts transsexuals face on a daily basis--and the
courage they must summon as they struggle to reveal their true being to
themselves and others. True Selves offers valuable guidance for those who are struggling to understand these people and their situations.
{amazon id=0787902713}Using
real life stories, actual letters, and other compelling examples, the
authors give a clear understanding of what it means to be transsexual.
They also give other useful advice, including how to deal
compassionately with these commonly misunderstood individuals--by
keeping an open heart, communicating fears, pain and support,
respecting choices.