Antijen is run by Aunty - who hosts many lists relating to transitioning for both families and the person in transition. It's a great resource with very nice, understanding people behind it.
Mailing list for posting pics of FTM surgery and penises, past surgeries ok, metaoidioplasties welcome too. Please no pics of genetic males. It is generally agreed that you will be an FTM to join and post, so please be FTM or SO only.